Why do men love bitches?

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Perhaps it’s crude, but it seems painfully clear that girls seek out the bad boy over the mama’s boy and that men love bitches over good girls. Now, even though this is a 2-sided topic, as a woman I can only speak for one side of the story, so here goes. What exactly is the appeal of the woman who can never be yours entirely, never fully appreciate you, never be reliable and in some cases just plain don’t want him. How is it that despite all logic, self regard and common sense, men pursue, attract and focus on bitches with laser like precision? Is it the love of the challenge? I get it, men love to pursue and chase women like a lion runs down a helpless deer, but when you catch it, do you want your dinner to deliver a few blows and punches before you sink your teeth in? Who would want to scratch, claw and fight when you don’t have to? What would be the point? Any yet, yes you guessed it, this is exactly what men accomplish by passing up an emotionally available, caring and mature woman for the self serving, diva bitch. The question remains…why??? No one wants the push over who goes for anything and has no backbone, I get that. Like Pac says, if it’s too easy I don’t want it (in the “How Do You Want It” beat). But does it have to be excruciatingly hard? Why opt for advanced trigonometry over, let’s say…algebra? Not quite as simple as 1+1, but it still requires effort. What is the answer? Do we seek out that which we think we deserve? In other words, do we look for someone to inflict the pain that we already feel inside? In many ways it would seem that makes perfect sense. People attract what they give off. The sadist is drawn to the masochist, the yin attracts the yang. But is that harmony? In theory, this is logical speaking in terms of specific give and take scenarios, right, but for two human beings to have actual harmony, real, sincere, lasting harmony, could it actually work if the focus is lopsided? Wouldn’t the one getting the short end of the stick eventually grow tired of always being second to the over bearing bitch? One would think…

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